Dating a girl that reads

  Hi everyone, I’ve wanted to write this post for a while after seeing the ‘You Should Date a Girl who Reads,’ recently re-posted on a favourite blog of mine and I wanted to share a couple of pointers about dating girls that read.

It’s also as good a time as any to mention I’m dating again. Yes, I’ve found a rather bookish, sarcastic, slightly awkward human being who adores books almost as much as I do and mirrors my fondness for burritos. He puts up with my messiness, my fondness for trashy television and wanted to spend his birthday reading books in the garden with me whilst eating kettle chips and drinking cider; sometimes I wonder where I found him. Four years of drunken encounters throughout university we realised we’re pretty great for one another. Before I get too mushy, here are a few pointers for dating a girl that reads.

Long Walks in multiple bookstores

If she mentions she’d like to, ‘just pop into the book-store round the corner,’ you can be sure that you’re probably in for the long haul. Whether it’s picking out a book she’s already read and reciting review comments, or picking out the oldest looking books and marvelling at the embossed covers I’m sorry to say you’re not leaving any time soon. But you might be able to pick up a book or two whilst you’re at it.

Constant Reading Recommendations

 “What do you mean you haven’t read The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath? It’s a stunning prose, studded with painful and evocative moments in the life of one struggling to overcome crippling depression. It’s a classic. You know, you should read it, you’ll like it I think.’

If you date a girl that reads this is likely to be a common occurrence. We just want to share books with people we think are pretty great, and you just happen to be one of them.

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No reply?

This is one doesn’t happen to me quite so often due to my escalating addiction to twitter, but there are days where I turn my phone onto aeroplane mode and just switch to book mode. It is so freeing just to turn off from the world, and I know it might feel like your SO has forgotten you but really an author has just captured their heart for an hour or two. Additionally, book time is a thing and you should totally respect it. Sometimes we just need a while to get our teeth stuck into a novel and wile away a couple of hours. #sorrynotsorry

Bookish Discussions

Blogging although very much a conversational thing is also often a little one-side so we like to make bookish conversation and you will most probably be our first call. Yes we’ll babble on for a while but sharing something so important to us is kind of special. You might even be able to pass on some bookish wisdom. I am now a proud reader of Haruki Murakami an author Tom thought I should read waaaay before we finally started dating. I now plan to read a lot more, because the writing is effortless.

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Meet the Bookshelf             

 Almost as terrifying as meeting the parents; seeing you SO’s bookshelf for the first time can be an intriguing moment. Whether it’s your pristine collection of Twilight books, or his signed autobiographies from James May, there could be an awkward moment or two. It’s often something you’ll giggle about and you never know you might find something you didn’t know was worth reading.

 If you are helping her move it will be absolute hell

As my parents will justify, moving a pile of boxes stacked with books will always be a bit of a bugger. Knees bent, back straight; it’s all part of the job. These books however hold more than just a couple of back-breaking missions to and from the car to the next house. They hold stories of passionate love, characters that have moved her to tears and stories that will stay with her forever. It’s worth it for those couple of hours days of pain.

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Books will always come first

For us readers foremost books come first. We have a passion, a love, an obsession you might say with pen and paper and although it may mean sometimes we disappear from reality for a while you are the one that we come back to and remember that reality is in fact okay and that there is a fairy-tale in real life too.

Sometimes I can surprise myself with how gushy I can be. As always anything to add, comment, share, or criticise leave it down in the comments or tweet me @littlebookblog1. Ciou.

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  1. August 7, 2015 / 2:29 pm

    Yay for finding the good ones to date!

    My husband knew, I think, what he was getting into in my life of books. But it wasn’t until we’d been married almost two years that I decided to give writing a go professionally. Then he REALLY didn’t know what he was in for 🙂

    But boys that date girls who read? They’re very smart boys!

    • August 11, 2015 / 9:25 am

      He’s pretty brilliant bless him, I’ve been at a festival all weekend which may explain the lack of comments and tweets but he was so super lovely when I got back even though my hair was a state I had no makeup on and I probably smelt like a field.
      Haha I’m not sure Tom could cope if I started writing he already has to put up with all my blogging jibber jabber 😉
      They are very smart 😉 well at least I liked to think so :3

    • August 11, 2015 / 9:25 am

      *EEEEE* thank you will have to take a look when I’ve got a spare moment 🙂

  2. August 7, 2015 / 9:13 pm

    yay for finding a reader 😉
    I have been single for almost 5 years now (it sucks!) so it’s basically me and my books.
    Awesome post !

    • August 11, 2015 / 9:30 am

      I know, it’s pretty wonderful to find one. We often go for breakfast Saturday morning (cough 12pm) and then spend the rest of the day reading it’s rather lovely 🙂
      Oh, well books are pretty awesome! Think they kind of saved me during my last relationship! Glad you liked the post :3

    • August 11, 2015 / 9:33 am

      Awe wow thank you 🙂 I loved the girl that reads post and thought there are so many brilliant things that happen when you date someone that loves reading I had to write a post 🙂
      so glad you enjoyed!! :3

  3. August 8, 2015 / 9:30 pm

    What a fab post. So cool you’ve found a booker to date. Murakami is great. I actually put up a post about him just yesterday.

  4. August 19, 2015 / 10:28 pm

    This was so great! I love this post. It’s so accurate. ^_^ Happy for you and your bookish SO. 🙂

    • August 25, 2015 / 4:50 pm

      Aweeee thank you! He is pretty wonderful glad you liked the post :))))))

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